You never know what life is going to throw at you!

[turnpin]

TBH it's weird but it's much easier chatting about it with people I have never met. Does that seem messed up?

No not at all after all a problem shared is a problem halved hope all works out ..best regards Turnpin

 

[Dotty]

TBH it's weird but it's much easier chatting about it with people I have never met. Does that seem messed up?

Not in the slightest. It's probably because we've never met you find it easier.

 

[julesverne]

shoot really feeling for ya . take the day off tomorrow make some bullshoot excuse just to gather yourself. Hope you can works things out.

 

[mutley racers]

That's real tough feller. I think ermni's advice is pretty good. Show her how much you care without too much pressure. I hope it comes good soon

 

[cr0ft]

To be honest it's a combination of me being, erm, quite a dominating personality and getting my own way a lot and her not feeling confident about shouting up about what she wants. Result = an angry wife that's exploded big style.

Mistakes on both sides I guess.

 

[gasmanrob]

Ouch. Nothing we can say or do will ease the blow of that.

If she loves you as she says then this maybe a good thing had she felt this way and not done anything or said anything she may have ended up resenting the relationship or worse you. Best she gets a bit of space and perspective on things.

chin up mate and don't forget you need a bit of space and time too working on a clouded mind is always counter productive. You think on things too much and end up snapping at the wrong people for the wrong things.

if you are clouded and confused take the day off. Sit in doors, go for a walk or whatever but just take time for you!!

 

[julesverne]

Not in the slightest. It's probably because we've never met you find it easier.

:iagree:

 

[IDCHAPPY]

B'ah, it's a dull blow mate. I presume there was no warning about it?
Take it easy if you can and see if she can give more explanation of where things are wrong.

 

[Destroyer2813]

Probably seems easier to talk to us as you get a unbiased opinion and no face to face awkward Ness. Seems tough mate just give her time don't hassle her to soon may make things worse good luck pal but I'd definitely be pulling a sickie if I fell I needed it

 

[cr0ft]

Ironically I've fallen out with my family defending her. My brother has autism but sometimes uses it to his advantage in social situations. My wife pulled him up on it and parents fell out with wife = I fell out with family.

Not a great combination!!